MIRMIUM
Oh my goodness no! You are certainly not! For me, my belly has always been my flabby 'problem area' so it was especially hard to watch that just get bigger and bigger. I just felt extra flabby for the first like 5 months lol. I'm still looking at the scale here and there but I'm trying to change my tune. It is hard not to think in terms of numbers but with pregnancy...it probably is the best strategy! It's really tough to know what is the right amount of weight and when the weight is extra versus all baby. Ugh, so confusing!