It's all about me!
Friday, July 23, 2010
Yes, me me me me me me me me me
We have to learn to love ourselves, yes, but I've noticed that when I'm replying to the blogs of my sparkfriends or leaving messages on their pages, I always turn the topic back to me. Is that selfish?
I'm trying not to do that, I'm trying to be more supportive of others and appreciate their accomplishments; the way they are congratulating me and giving me credit for my acheivements without turning the topic back to them. Isn't this true support?
Why might you ask have I choosen this topic? Well, this morning I realized that I was reading another blog and that sparker was going on and on and on about their wonderful accomplishments. Kudos to them and all the other sparkers who left even more kudos. Then I checked the feed of that sparker to see what kind of support they gave to others. NONE! Three pages in and still no support returned to all those wonderful sparkers who had given their support, only to receive nothing in return (truly an unselfish act!)
Yes, I too want all the attention. But I am here vowing to attempt to support my fellow sparkfriends in their journeys and not make their journey about me (unless my experience might help them through a hurdle in some way).
Love you all, for you are the one who must take the credits for your accomplishments. I am here to recognize those efforts and reinforce your determination to stay with the healthier lifestyle! You go Sparkers!