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Chris I can empathize with you there. Except I did not know when I told my husband see you later when he dropped me off to work that I would not see him again down here. To this day I do not just say see you later I say goodbye to my daughter. Because like you I was traumatized by it. He died of a massive heart attack at home. I was at work waiting for him to come and pick me up. I just thought he had fallen asleep by the tv or something. Instead he fell asleep while cleaning out the aquarium for my daughter; in the bathroom. Then he had his heart attack and she said his hands were tightly clenched but he never cried out. I think he did not want her to know that he was dying. Before that when I had called home she had said she could not wake him up. I told her to call 911 but when they finally came it was too late.But I cherish the years we had together. It is all right to cry; it is the only way to heal.
His mother died from a heart attack too; they managed to get her to breathe again briefly but she just asked them to let her go.in the ambulance and we will see her in heaven too.

Ruth Ann I can only imagine the pain you felt on losing your mom. What a heart wrenching story. I lost my mom in 2014 from bladder and yeast infections that ravaged her body in the end. My daughter was extremely close to her and we went to see her in the assisted living place the day before she died. She was on hospice care there. Before this I had went to see her with my brother and sister-in-law. My 2 sister were in Tennessee and could not come down. They said she only answered to grandma and I knew then that she wanted to see my daughter to say goodbye. Her other grandkids were in Illinois and California.

Our pastor brought us to see her in the morning; the day before she died. We said our goodbyes and Jenny was in tears when we left. It hurt her so much and she resented my sisters for not taking care of her the way they should. The next day we were told that she went into a coma and passed away in the morning. My family is fractured since it happened and things will never be the same. I can say that one day we will see her in heaven and she is no longer in pain anymore. And God will make my sisters answer for what they did too. I can forgive but it is hard to forget; when you see your loved one suffer like she did.

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My mother was only 52 years old when she passed away. She had been really sick. She changed doctor's cause the doctor that she had kept telling her that it was all in her head. She was a diabetic and she had lost most of her eye sight. She was a Christian and she believed in the Father, the Son and the Holy Ghost. Anyway, she changed doctors and the new doctor put her in the hospital to run tests on her and they found that she only had 25% usage of her kidneys. It meant that she would have to go to the hospital and have her system cleaned out with a machine. She said that she never wanted to live on machines. She was in the hospital in March of 1992. She died on March 30, 1992. She had just gotten out of the hospital on the 29th of March.
I had taken my hubby to work and I was coming back in town to go home and I seen my Aunt's car sitting in the parking lot of Long John Silver's. It was lunch time so I pulled in and went in to have lunch with my aunt and my mom. Little did I know that would be the last meal that I would ever have with my mother. We ate and talked and then she was ready to go home cause she was tired after all the tests that they had run on her. So, I gave my mother a hug, told her that I loved her, and I said Good Bye to her! She went her way and I went mine.
I did not know that about 8 a.m. the next morning that I would have a knock on my door telling me my mother had passed away through the night. Nor did I realize that GOOD BYE was going to be real to me after that. For so many years I refused to tell anyone GOOD BYE cause I was so afraid of losing them as well.
Anyway, I still have not mourn over the loss of my mother. I tear up but I have never sat down and really cried. This is the same with my daughter. I have not really cried for her either.

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