My day started out like no other..I was fine..I thought everything was fine.Little did I know that EVERYTHING was about to change.
I took a shower,when I get out I have 5 missed calls..I thought to myself..WOW I was only in the shower for 10 minutes.
My husband calls me,and tells me he needed to tell me something.I said,"Ok".
He tells me to sit down.He was SERIOUS.
He then tells me that my little sister who is 19 yrs old,and 23 weeks pregnant LOST her baby
On Sunday night my sister,and her husband go to the ER.She is having some stomach pains.Also hadn't felt the baby kick very much.
They COULD NOT find the baby's heartbeat!!
Ok so you would think they take her into do an ultrasound..NOPE!! They make her wait 2.5 HOURS!! WTF?? Are you kidding me??
Oh well they had to "ORDER IT"..WHATEVER!! A life is hanging in the balance you don't order SH!T!!
They told her the baby was fine.The ultrasound showed a heartbeat..My sister tried telling the Dr about her hands,and feet.The Dr looks at her hands.They are DOUBLE in size with red spots on them..He then tells her that it is NORMAL
Did not bother telling her it was SURE signs of Preclamsia (don't know if I spelled it right)
This morning when her Dr couldn't find a heartbeat..She sent my sister over to the hospital for an ultrasound..Which she did NOT have to wait for!!
The lady who did her ultrasound just looked at my sister..
And shook her head..Saying,"I'm so sorry.."
My sister was living in a NIGHTMARE.SCREAMING..CRYING.
So now she is in the hospital being induced..YES she has to give birth to her DEAD baby..I can't wrap my head around this..I want to choke the life out of the Dr that sent her home!! There is NOT one person on this earth that can tell me he was in the right to send my sister home..Even her nurse tonight kept asking well did the hospital do this..Or that..??BUT no,they did nothing.Told her she was fine..AND NORMAL!!
My heart is hurting so badly for my sister..BUT there is nothing I can do or say to help her..
Her baby's name is Brayden Lee.My poor sister has to plan his funeral.
I never thought my little sister would be planning a funeral for her baby
Some people might think I'm being too harsh when I write about that hospital..BUT I have been sent home from there..With antibiotics..Only within an hour my husband calls my previous surgeon to find out that I should have been rushed to MY hospital for emergency surgery.When I say MY hospital I mean where I had our son.
If you have a child..PLEASE no matter where they are or what age..Because lets be honest..It doesn't really matter how old they are.They WILL ALWAYS be "YOUR" baby.
Tell them you love them..And THANK GOD for your child EVERYDAY!!
Not everyone is as blessed to have a beautiful baby.
I lost my first baby..BUT I didn't have to give birth.I lost it at 7 weeks.My sisters pregnancy was half way over..
I'm heading back over there in the morning.Don't know how long this takes..
I just don't know what to say to her.
Thank you for reading..and for your prayers.God Bless my Spark family